My brother-in-law Mark was a Navy SEAL, and we lost Mark in the Iraq war. He died a hero's death, doing exactly what he loved: using his skills, with his team of comrades, to fight for our country and deliver people to safety who had been captured by terrorists. In the aftermath of his death, I got to meet many of his SEAL team members, colleagues and comrades, most of whom had fought side by side with him in Afghanistan and Iraq.
One of his teammates, whom I'll call Bryce, was in the ocean during Hell Week, swimming the last long leg to the finish line. Mark had already made it; he had passed the final test and knew that he would become a SEAL. For him, it was done, and he was standing on the rocks above the water, eagerly watching his buddies strive toward the goal.
That was when Bryce hit a wall.
As Bryce described it, it was that moment when his body would just go no more. It was done. Nothing left. He tried to will himself to keep going, but his body would not obey.
Imagine that moment: all of those years, all of that training, all of that sacrifice . . . about to be gone. He could see his dreams sinking with him, about to be over. Until . . .
As he told the story of going down, about to call for help and signal that it was over for him, his eyes fell upon the land ahead. There was Mark, standing on the shore. Mark saw him, and Bryce said that Mark gave him a huge fist pump and a yell, signaling to Bryce that "he could do it." Their eyes locked for a few seconds, and as Bryce described it, something happened. Something beyond him. His body jumped into another gear, into another dimension of performance that he had not had access to before; he was able to get back on top of the cold water again and swim toward the finish line. He made it. He finished. He would be a SEAL.
That influence is what I call the Power of the Other. Let me tell you a little more about that here.
Until next time ...
Cheers,
Henry
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