Dear Ethan Perez,
Thank you for visiting www.PAIRS.com and completing the PAIRS Relationship Pleasure Scale. Out of a total possible score of 100, your score is 0, which indicates your relationship falls into a high-risk category: STARVED that indicates significant challenges.
The results we provide are not meant to represent a formal or professional assessment of your relationship, but an indication of opportunities for enhancement.
People who score at this level are often feeling starved for fulfillment of basic relationship needs and may be experiencing much pain, anger, frustration, or distance. Its not unusual in this situation to be considering separation or divorce, as you may be in what PAIRS calls the Confusion or Conclusion stage of relationship. Click here to learn more about Stages of Relationship. You may benefit from learning more about the reasons many couples consider separation or divorce through the article Step Back from the Brink, which is available here.
If you want this relationship to improve, this is an important time to learn about the logic of love, emotions and bonding; and specific tools to deepen communication, address differences, and enhance pleasure to create an environment in which you can identify and resolve your half of the barriers to intimacy.
You may find great benefit from participation in PAIRS or a similar research-validated, relationship skills course. PAIRS classes are offered in communities throughout the nation. A current calendar of events is available at consumer.pairs.com.
Many PAIRS exercises are also available online at apps.pairs.com.
No one should have this little joy and pleasure. Take time to learn why things are this empty for you and how to change it! Regardless of the ultimate outcome of this relationship, those are important lessons that can benefit you throughout your life.
President & CEO
Purpose Built Families Foundation
9050 Pines Blvd., Suite 305
Pembroke Pines, FL 33024
Online at www.pairs.com