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Hey Elijah!

Date nights always sound like a great idea... but then the weekend comes and goes without anything happening!

(If this sounds familiar, you are not alone!)

Are you curious about how you can make dating your spouse a PRIORITY - and get it on the calendar every single week?

Here''s the secret:

Plan your date ideas ahead of time, and then pick which idea you will execute each weekend!

And a SUPER fun way to randomly pick your date idea each week is to create a DATE NIGHT JAR!

Check out all the details and FREE printables below, and make it easy to keep date night a fun, weekly tradition!

SCHEDULE THESE DATE NIGHTS!

Doesn''t that make planning date night so much easier?!

And let''s be honest, when you put awesome date ideas in a jar, nothing but good can come out of it. ;) Have fun with this one!

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Hi there Elijah!

Think back to how you felt about your brand-new spouse on your wedding day.

Most likely, it was a day filled with excitement, butterflies, and pure ROMANCE! I mean, the two of you had just decided to unite your lives together, and you were ready to spend your years in bliss!

Now, fast forward a bit to where you are now. It's no fun to admit, but keeping the romance alive in marriage can be HARD WORK!

Here at The Dating Divas, we have over 10 years of experience finding the very best resources and ideas to keep that spark alive, no matter how long you've been with your spouse.

Whether you are looking for some heartfelt advice to bring those butterflies back or searching for some steamy bedroom ideas, we are sending you our top tips, date nights, resources, and more that will help you SPICE IT UP!

Are you ready to dive into romance and passion?!

TURN UP THE VOLUME!

That was a great list, right?! Romance is NEVER dead!

Let me know which tips you liked most, or if you have other ideas of how you have made your marriage a priority! Otherwise, I''ll be back soon with more spicy, steamy, romantic tips to help your rock your marriage!

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Hey Elijah!

Do you ever wonder exactly what your spouse thinks about your sex life?

We've used our magical powers and large audience to put together some results I thiiiiiiink you will find very interesting - cuz we have been OBSESSED with these responses!

Presenting:

5 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Sex

and

5 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Sex

We'll be honest, we did not expect the results that we got. Both of the lists are very different from each other, but we think they are suuuuper important to know.

Are you curious about what made the list for both genders? Click below, and use it as a conversation starter with your spouse later today!

WHAT YOUR SPOUSE WISH YOU KNEW

Aren't those lists interesting?!

Share them with your sweetie tonight, and get their opinion on what they agree with from their list! Communicating about sex doesn't have to be weird! ;)

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Hello Elijah!

Do you want a fun, easy way to deepen your connection with your sweetie?

The easiest way is to get to know them better!

Whaaaat? I know, I know. It seems like we should know our partner pretty well, right? Or at least we did when we were dating. But you've probably changed since then, and your spouse has probably changed, too!

So, it's time to get to know each other AGAIN - in a super fun and engaging way!

I'm sharing two of my fast, favorite ideas for how to connect with your spouse:

1. A "favorite things" questionnaire to help you stay up-to-date on their fav things!
2. A "Study Your Spouse" challenge with the most worthwhile homework you've ever had! ;)

GETTING TO KNOW YOU

BECOME AN EXPERT

It may seem silly, but getting to know your spouse over and over is the best way to keep that connection strong!

Both of these activities are SO easy, and that spark of romance will just keep growing! ;)

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What''s up Elijah?

Once you have kids, date night brings up a huge concern:

How do I find a good babysitter?!

It''s one of the biggest obstacles to having a successful date night each week for couples who have young kids.

We may be a website that strengthens marriages, but that means we have also become pros at finding and keeping great babysitters - so that we have alone time to strengthen our marriage!

So I''m sharing 2 of my favorite babysitting strategies today:

1. How to FIND and KEEP a babysitter that you loooove!
2. How to start a babysitting co-op with trusted friends and neighbors!

Click on the ideas below, and let the burden of childcare turn into the easiest part of date night!

FIND AND KEEP THE GOOD BABYSITTERS!

SET UP FREE CHILDCARE WITH FRIENDS!

Kids can make date night tough. That''s why I love sharing these resources!

Having a regular babysitter is what makes date night still possible for us - I promise it''s worth the effort to find a good one! Let me know if you have any more tips you would add, and try to enjoy a kid-free date night this week!

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Hi Elijah!

Do you know how your spouse wants to be shown love?

If you feel like the passion is fading from your relationship a bit. this is the question you really want to know how to answer!

We are BIG FANS of the 5 Love Languages! So, do you know which love language your spouse prefers?

• Receiving gifts
• Quality time
• Words of affirmation
• Acts of service
• Physical touch

Once you've figured out WHAT your spouse's love language is - we've gathered up a massive list to show you HOW to speak that language!

Check out the list below for tons of ideas for how to show your spouse you love them, in each love language!

SPEAK THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE!

So which love language speaks to your spouse the best? Did you find a great idea that they will LOVE?!

We know that making your spouse feel like your top priority is the BEST way to bring passion back into your marriage! So try this out, and make your sweetie feel allll the love!

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Hey there Elijah!

You have all the time in the world to sit around for a few hours, searching the internet and planning an elaborate date night every single week for you and your spouse, right?

HAHAHA. We''ve got jokes! ;)

Although it is SO FUN to plan huge date nights every once in a while, most of the time, date night isn''t going to happen unless we can plan it in 15 minutes (or less!).

Life is BUSY! But that doesn''t mean date nights have to get thrown away!

Check out this massive list of date nights that can be planned toootally last-minute. #noexcuses :)

QUICK AND EASY DATE IDEAS

Ain''t nobody got time to miss date night!

Keep this list handy for when Friday night creeps up on you - I totally know how that happens! Enjoy these quick and easy date nights!

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Hello Elijah!

If you've got kids, have you ever wondered who should be your top priority - your spouse or your kids?

It's a common question and one that people have some strong opinions about, for sure!

(Obviously, there are many, many, many times that your kids' needs will be the most important at the moment! Did I say "many" enough? HAHA!)

But here at The Dating Divas, we fully believe that if you make your spouse your TOP priority the majority of the time, everything else will fall into place - and WON'T hurt your kiddos either!

If you need a little bit of convincing, we've gathered our top 10 reasons why we think your spouse should come first - and how that choice can bring passion and romance back into your marriage!

PICKING PRIORITIES

Number 7 is just the sweetest to me! Wasn't that a great list?

This is something that I feel so passionately about! I challenge you to find some little way to make your spouse a higher priority to you this week - and let me know how it goes!

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Hello Elijah!

Do you want to try a date night that is one of our most popular creations, ever?!

Hundreds and hundreds of couples have tried this one, and then done it again, and again... It''s a tried and true Diva favorite!

This date night:

• is completely FREE from start to finish!
• is perfect for both introverts and extroverts!
• can take as long or as short as you would like!
• involves my FAVORITE thing in the entire world (besides chocolate...)

It''s our Bookstore Date!

Click below to check out our Bookstore Date challenges, and give this fan-favorite a try this weekend!

TRIED AND TRUE FAVORITE

Make sure you don''t laugh too loud for this one! ;)

I LOVE this date night, and it''s a great one to repeat over and over, without spending a dime! Enjoy this date, fellow bookworms!

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Hi Elijah!

Does "date night" always mean "dinner and a movie" to you?!

Listen, I''ve got no problems with Netflix, popcorn, and some delicious takeout!

But... do you feel like you are in a bit of a date night rut? If Friday night ALWAYS means dinner and a movie, it might be fun to switch things up!

You don''t even have to step that far outside of your comfort zone - or even leave your house! - to still have a hilarious, exciting, and meaningful date night with the one you love!

Check out our FAVORITE at-home date night ideas below!

LET''S GET YOU OUT OF THE DATE NIGHT RUT!

Seriously, the best part is that you don''t even have to leave your house for any of these date ideas! If you''ve got kids, you know how valuable that is! ;)

Have fun planning your at-home date this week! I can''t wait to hear which idea you decide to pull off!

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Hey Elijah!

We love sending tons of amazing date night ideas straight to your inbox!

But... do you ever start to feel a little overwhelmed with all the date night options?!

Sometimes it''s hard to know exactly what to do!

So - we worked some magic to make things as simple as possible. ;) And created a mega-flow chart that will tell you exactly which date idea you should try this weekend!

All you have to do is answer a few "would you rather" questions, and VOILA - you''ll have the date night that is just right for you and your spouse!

I told you... it''s just magic!

Check it out below, and see what date we pick out just for you!

EASY DATE NIGHT SOLUTION

Wasn''t that flow chart ah-mazing?!

And feel free to keep using it each weekend! Your responses to the questions will probably change each time, so you''ll get a fresh new date idea! Have fun!

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Hi Elijah!

No matter how long you've been married, does it still feel a little awkward to talk about sex with your spouse?

You are NOT alone! Many couples find they actually avoid talking about sex because it seems like a strange thing to openly talk about.

Do you want a super-easy way to start speaking about your sex life regularly and naturally with your spouse?

You need our crazy popular Sexy Conversation Starters!

Look through this list, pick the convo you want to start with, and make a tradition of trying a new starter every night before bed!

BAM! Sexy conversations will now be just like talking about the weather! ;) Click below to look through our list!

PILLOW TALK!

Won't those make the conversations so much easier?

I've also found that talking about sex tends to lead to. well, you know. ;) Have fun with these!

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Hey there Elijah!

Isn''t there just something exciting about going outside for date night?!

Enjoying s''mores around a campfire in the summer, hay rides in the fall, and judging Christmas lights in the winter...

If you are looking for ways to get you and your sweetie headed into the great outdoors for some alone time, we''ve rounded up our favorite ideas.

No matter if it''s hot, windy, snowy, or a perfect 70 degrees outside - you can still pull off a super memorable outdoor date!

So start lacing up your shoes, and check out this giant list of outdoor dates! ;)

YOUR ULTIMATE GUIDE FOR OUTDOOR DATES

Outdoor dates are such a fun way to connect with your sweetie while catching some fresh air!

Hopefully you found something new to try from that ultimate list. Getting outside is one of my all-time favorites!

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Hey Elijah!

You probably know, deeeeep down, that having regular date nights is one of the best ways to make your marriage rock-solid AND tons of fun!

But what does "date night" really look like for married couples?

And, more importantly, what do you do if your spouse isn''t on board?!

Luckily for you, this is our specialty. Here at The Dating Divas, we have helped thousands of couples make "date night" a top priority!

Even if you haven''t gone on a date since the day you got married, even if you''ve got young kids at home, even if your spouse thinks it''s strange...

We''ve got all the ideas, tips, resources, and date nights you need in order to show your spouse you are willing to make time for them!

Did you know that consistent date nights lead to:

• Creating new memories and stories together
• Making more time to connect regularly
• An increase in intimacy ;)
• Setting an example of a healthy marriage
• and soooo much more!

Ready to jump in and make date night happen?!

Click below for the easiest ways to start a date night with your spouse, even if they aren''t on board (yet)!

NO EXCUSES!

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I can''t wait to hear what you are planning for date night!

If it''s been a while, you''re going to LOVE how it starts to transform your marriage. I''m excited to share more of my favorite fun and free ideas with you!

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Hello Elijah!

Date night every single weekend can start to add up pretty quickly, huh?!

Our favorite lesson we''ve learned here at The Dating Divas is how to create a hilarious, fun-filled memory with your spouse for very little money!

In fact, we are kind of pros at it. ;)

Today, I wanted to share 10 date night ideas that can be done for only $2 each!

So you can go on 10 date nights and only spend $20 in total! Yes, we promise, this is real haha - and tons of couples have already tried these and LOVE them!

Click below to see these genius, adorable, CHEEEEEAP date ideas!

(Okay, okay, I''ll spill one of the date ideas before you click over to the full article: Go to the Dollar Store and buy each other a secret gift that you think will make your spouse laugh! So fun, right?! Okay, now click below!)

DATE NIGHT DOESN''T HAVE TO BE EXPENSIVE!

Date night can always be a top priority - even on a tight budget!

I''m excited for you to try these cheap date ideas that will still leave you rich with memories! ;) Tell me which one you try this week!

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